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Georgia Shaffer is an author, a credentialed Christian coach, professional speaker, and licensed psychologist in Pennsylvania.
It is her life experiences with adversity, however, that speak the loudest. She shares this wisdom in her speaking as well as in books such as Taking Out Your Emotional Trash, Avoiding the 12 Relationship Mistakes Women Make, 12 Smart Choices to Finding the Right Guy, Coaching the Coach and A Gift of Mourning Glories: Restoring Your Life After Loss.
Georgia’s story, along with her photos, are featured in the film Letters to God. She has appeared on shows such as The 700 Club, The Sharron and Hermann Show, Decision Today, Sky Angel’s A Time for Hope and on the DVDs Jesus: Fact or Fiction? and Extraordinary Women Bible Study. And Telling It Like It Is with Rosalinda Rivera. Also, is very excited about her recent TEDx talk called Finishing Well in Life, shared at the Living Word Community Church.
As a charter board member of the International Christian Coaching Association, Georgia is a core part of the teaching staff on American Association of Christian Counselors Professional Life Coaching Training DVD series.
When she isn’t writing, speaking, or coaching, Georgia enjoys spending time working in her garden. She resides near Lancaster, Pennsylvania.
I am a speaker to Christian Singles and Women.
Contact me to speak to your groups today. See details below.Popular Talks for Christian Singles
Blind Spots . . . Heartache May Be Closer Than It Appears
When you teach someone to drive a car, you always educate them about blind spots–large areas where objects cannot be seen. Yet, many of us aren’t aware of our relational blind spots when dating, so we overlook red flags. In this enlightening workshop, Georgia will help you:
- See the whole person without getting blind-sided by the qualities that attract you.
- Strengthen your ability to discern when a man or woman is trustworthy.
- Utilize godly counsel to see what it is you cannot see on your own.
Balancing the Craziness of Romance with the Sanity of Reason
Most of us are romanced by the idea of romance. Falling in love is intoxicating. But how do we enjoy the moment, appreciate romance, and love without getting swept away by the myth that these euphoric feelings will last forever? Georgia equips you to make wise choices by enabling you to:
- Clarify what traits, such as faith, family, and honesty, are most important to you.
- Recognize what qualities are needed for healthy committed relationships.
- Assess with confidence the compatibility of those you date.
Confronting the “What ifs”: Practical Strategies for the Challenges of Singleness
What if I never find someone to love me? What if I never have children? What if I get sick and can’t support myself? Our what ifs are often as unique as we are. Georgia provides valuable guidance to help singles explore their options and answer questions, such as, “What will my life look like if I never get married?” In this session, you will learn to:
- Confront your relational fears to reduce feelings of neediness and desperation.
- Minimize doubts or anxieties that hinder your ability to connect with others.
- Experience a heightened sense of God’s comfort in spite of uncertainty.
It’s Time to Take Out the Trash: How to Make a Clean Sweep of Those Toxic Emotions
Have you ever been so upset that you said or did something you regretted? All of us carry disappointment, fears, or unrealistic expectations that can pile up and eventually blow up. Georgia identifies practical strategies for “taking out the trash” before any pent-up emotions damage your health or your relationships. You will learn how to:
- Minimize the time you spend acting out your feelings.
- Lighten the burdens that come from destructive guilt, anger, and shame.
- Improve your ability to connect with others without the weight of emotional baggage.
- Boost your physical reserves and experience more peace and joy.
Living Intentionally: Cultivating a Caring Community
One of the mistaken beliefs about being single is the need to go it alone. Isolation, however, is downright dangerous. God created us to be in relationship, and we need people with whom to share our lives. Georgia’s message will help reduce your vulnerability to loneliness and empowers you to:
- Improve your emotional connections by recognizing your style of relating.
- Identify the emotional needs of others, so you can support them during difficult times.
- Minimize behaviors that create barriers in your closest relationships.
Growing Through Changes We Don’t Choose
How do you respond when you lose your job, face an unwanted move, or get your heart broken? Can painful experiences lead to positive change? In this session, you will learn to:
- Strengthen your ability to experience God’s peace when your dreams are shattered.
- Identify healthy stress relievers that enable you to ease the pain of loss.
- Heal from past hurts and enhance your ability to make a fresh start.
Living with Passion and Purpose
Many singles miss out on a fulfilling life, because they’re waiting for a spouse, a child, or a new home. But, you don’t have to put your life on hold. Imagine how much richer your life would be if you were able to:
- Confront the fears that prevent you moving outside your comfort zone.
- Confidently assess which risks are worth taking and which are not.
- Use your strengths, skills, and talent to enhance other people’s lives.
- Minimize time distracted to maximize time focused on God’s divine plan for you.
Suggested Themes for a Singles Retreat or Conference
Under each conference theme is a list of suggested sessions.
How NOT to Date a Loser
- Blind Spots … Heartache May Be Closer Than It Appears
- Balancing the Craziness of Romance with the Sanity of Reason
- Confronting the “What-ifs” : Practical Strategies for the Challenges of Singleness
- Living Intentionally: Cultivating a Caring Community
- Living with Passion and Purpose
Unplug And Reconnect with God, Yourself, and Others
- Connect with Self & Others . . . Cultivating Caring Relationships
- Connect without Breakdowns . . . What’s Causing Those Disconnects?
- Connect with Your God-Given Passions and Purpose
- Connect with God
Popular Talks for Women
Taking Out Your Emotional Trash
Do you want more energy, more peace, and more happiness? Let Georgia help you dump your junk before you trash your relationships. She will introduce you to strategies that enable you to evaluate your emotions, keep the life-affirming ones, and discard those that hinder healthy connections. You will learn how to:
- Reduce destructive anxiety, fear, guilt, and shame.
- Experience greater intimacy in relationships.
- Handle life’s ups and downs more easily.
- Experience more hope and joy.
Growing Through the Changes We Do Not Choose
Unwanted change, loss, and shattered dreams are part of life. Fortunately, you can do more than “go” through these painful seasons. You can “grow” through them. In this session, Georgia will empower you to:
- Experience a heightened sense of God’s comfort during difficult times.
- Navigate the obstacles you encounter as you rebuild your life.
- Reduce your vulnerability to feeling overwhelmed or hopeless.
- Heal from the hurts and enhance your ability to begin anew.
Avoiding the Biggest Relationship Mistakes We Make
Whenever you drive a car, it’s crucial to stay aware of blind spots–large areas where objects can’t be seen and cause accidents. Yet, many of us are unaware of our relational blind spots, which often cause conflicts in our closest connections. In this enlightening presentation, Georgia will help you:
- Recognize your relational blind spots to avoid their destructive effects.
- Utilize godly counsel to see what it is you cannot see on your own.
- Minimize behaviors that hinder deep, meaningful relationships.
- Turn damaging patterns into productive ones.
Living with Passion and Purpose
What do you care about deeply? What desires, experiences, and talents has God given you? How are you unique? Following God’s vision for your life can transform some of your most mundane moments into magnificent ones. Imagine how much richer your life will be when you are able to:
- Confront the fears that prevent you moving outside your comfort zone.
- Confidently assess which risks are worth taking and which are not.
- Minimize the time distracted to maximize time focused on God’s divine plan for you.
- Use your strengths, skills, and talents to enhance other people’s lives.
What people are saying about Georgia’s speaking:
“Georgia was fabulous! I know I can count on her to do an excellent job and be a blessing to the women.”
Candace Davison,
Women’s Ministry Coordinator, Sandy Cove Ministries, MD
“Our best Women’s Retreat ever! You helped us to understand how we can repair, improve and deepen our own personal and spiritual relationships. You are a joy to work with. We have never had such glowing evaluations of a Retreat Leader!”
Marcia Nesbit,
Mechanicsburg Presbyterian Church, Mechanicsburg, PA
“Georgia was terrific! Her messages connected with our goals in so many ways–growing closer to Christ, connecting with one another, and receiving practical applications we could use in our lives.”
Melanie Criste,
Hunt Valley Church, MD
