Five Ways We Deceive Ourselves

Have you ever cleaned your house before guests arrive and thrown junk in the back of a closet or stuffed clutter into a drawer? Your house appeared clean and organized as long as your guests didn’t look in those areas. We do the same thing with our motivations...

The Letdown After Forgiving

A friend recently lost 100 pounds. After he reached his goal, he posted on Facebook that he felt strangely letdown or empty. “Now what?” he wondered. In addition, he didn’t expect that some of his old friends would treat him differently because they...

True Guilt or Not?

Are you feeling guilty about anything? If so, the first step is to determine if your feelings are true or false guilt or both. True Guilt We experience authentic guilt when we have done something that does not meet God’s standards or our own. True guilt could be...

When Happy Isn’t in the Holidays

 It’s that time of year where television commercials and magazine advertisements overflow with what seem like only bright, happy faces. But what if you are filled with a sense of loss, uncertainty, or dread? What if you are feeling discouraged or hopeless?...